I did a lot of research on it while I was pregnant and I knew that it was hard and it didn’t work as easily as the movies make it seem. It takes a lot of work and effort from both Mom and Baby. I was prepared for this. I told myself that if it didn’t work right away, I couldn’t get upset and I had to keep trying. I knew it was going to hurt. I didn’t prepare my body for this, I had heard that doesn’t really do anything, but mentally I knew that it would hurt and I had to get through that.
Then the time came. R handled it beautifully. She had no problems at all. But boy did it hurt!!!! I’m not talking about just latching on, I’m talking about the entire time she was feeding. I had two different lactation specialists at the hospital stop by to help me. They both said she was latched on correctly and the pain would go away. It didn’t. In case you aren’t ware, new born babies can eat for a long time. R was a slow eater, it was 40 min or so per feeding. 40 min or so of intense pain.
About a week or so after we were home I went to a nursing mother’s support group. I asked for help. I didn’t get much help because, as the specialist there said, she was latched on correctly. I tried different positions, I tried everything I could think of. I was ready to give up. I was in tears every time she had to eat because it was so painful. Yet I felt so guilty because I knew I wanted to breastfeed her and I felt this was the healthiest thing for her. Husband helped me out by just telling me to make it “one more day”. I would spend my time breastfeeding at night watching video’s on how to latch on properly and looking at pictures and articles on the proper way.
I was a new Mom and I was STRESSING out.
Then one time she latched on, I played with how she latched on, and there was no pain. That’s right. No pain. Guess what, if she latched on the “proper” way, it hurt. If she latched on a “non-proper” way I had no pain. What a relief!
|I knew I liked him for a reason. haha!|
Yes, I knew there was going to be pain. Nobody told me the pain would last for 4 weeks though! Now I tell everyone. If they plan to breastfeed I let them know, if there is pain try playing with how they are latched on. If it is super painful when they first latch on, give it time. It took me a good 4 weeks to not have any more pain.
That’s just the beginning though, I had other issues with breastfeeding but I’ll save those for another day.